Otherwise, give him control of all the things he hasn't had to do because you've filled the gap. Spend that time for yourself. Get out of the house. Take a class, go out with friends, get a hobby.
I have seen this advice a few times on this thread now.
Sorry, but I think handing your life over to your H right now is a ridiculous idea.
Sure give him control of finances.. let him drive you into further debt
Sure give him control of the household maintenance... having your home in disarray for weeks on end will reduce your stress a truckload I'm sure
Yup, leave everything fall apart in the untrained hands of an addict ... great plan!
You let him near your finances in particular and you will REGRET it
The LAST thing you want to be doing is handing control of your life over to this fool right now.
Yes, backburner him, but do NOT leave the household for him to manage.. you will be completely at his mercy and stressed out a lot more than you are now..
You think not knowing what he is doing when he's out of the house is stressful? Sure, hand the household to him to manage and you will not know what state ANYTHING is in... THEN you will know what stress feels like.
Surrender control of the household over to an addict?
