My guess is we never totally get beyond it. I base this on a conversation with a coworker. He's been happily married to his second wife for nearly 20 years. They raised a son. He said the second marriage is better in every way from the first.
Yet he still thinks about his first wife at least once a week.
That was an eye-opener.
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