W and I will be sitting down to discuss things for the first time since the S. Primarily about visitation with the kids. I have been staying with a relative since the S, but am getting my own appartment next week so that I am near the kids school and will be in a logistical position to have them on a regular basis.
This is going to be a painful meeting. I have primarily kept any time with her short ... enough time to pick up the kids and get out. I am thinking about using this time to ask her for a legal S as opposed to D for right now. Is this a good move?
Also, any advice on how to handle this would be appreciated.