Is he an anxious, uptight type of guy?
A black and white thinker? Not very flexible?

Somethings you mentioned reminded me of my hubby. If I was upset with something he did- he would get upset way more over my upset. "Why are you getting me all distraught over this...", "Do you know how much you upset me?..." stuff like that.....

M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)