Need a Plan for My Marriage

[antlers]

She is so self righteous about everything. W does not take responsibility for anything.

I do not plan to have anything less than joint physical custody.

My making you responsible for everything...she makes herself responsible for nothing! She convinces herself of something that's not true in order to justify her actions!

Neither did I. And that's how things were filed initially...then she came back and changed it 4 months later seeking sole custody! Now we are in an awful war that nobody wins!