Yep! Working on yourself gives you the strength you need to get through this... and the bonus is down the road you'll see just how much strength you've gained.
I look back on my time alone and realize that there were some very happy times... IIIIIII survived! I'm so darn proud of that. I cleared the snow off my own driveway, I learned to operate a snowblower (it's fun!), I cut my own grass,... I got a chance to read again, watch the movies IIIIIIIIII wanted to. Etc etc etc. Embrace the "me me me" that you need to put yourself in. You're entitled... matter of fact, it's a necessity for you. We weren't put on this earth to be someone elses' whipping boy.
Cheers Abbey
T:22, M:20 H:55 Me:45 H-OW PA: N/07 OW Jan08 Bomb:Feb/08 S: Apr/08 Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11 Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess. Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.
