W still wants separation, need to DB more

[OfficerInNeed]

I work the night shift, 8pm-6am. I am so use to being up during those hours that on my nights off, I am up for most of the same hours. When my W went to bed, I was wide awake. I was sitting in the spare room, which use to be an office and is still where the computer is, so it is where I was. If my W would had said that she planned on sleeping in there I would have got up and out no problem.

I have my list of goals and selected a few of the easier ones (at least I thought) I have to rethink them again. I know what my ultimate goals are but maybe I am aiming too high. The fact she asked to watch a movie was a huge plus.

What I am trying to accomplish by posting our daily interactions on the forums is to get help on determining what works. So many users on this forum have been through it or are going through it and hopefully can provide insight on my DB approaches.

Thanks again for all your input and advice. It truly helps and keeps me focused.