My Story - No courage for full details yet

[Mr Peabody]

OK, since PMs are disabled, I just want to make a quick shout out.

Robx, I have read your story from your very first post. It HAS to be frustrating watching people walk the very same road that you have traveled. I watch my oldest son make some of the same mistakes that I did. I start to talk to him about it and realize I am saying some of the same things to him that my Dad said to me. I've tried to logic and reason. There is a reason we are on this road. We are feeling the same things that you did. We are walking a mile in your moccasins. I've read your posts on some other topics from some other noobs. The frustration shows. All I am saying.

That said, I want to reconcile my marriage. This is Divorce Busting. I realize I have a lot of lessons to learn. I realize that there is a lot of good advice that is out here. No two people, man or woman, are alike. No two situations are alike.

I AM a nice guy. I have treated my W like a doormat and been so treated. I think every marriage goes through that. I have tried some things and they haven't worked. I have tried some things and have appeared to make progress.

I would love to say that I am going to be one of those people who reconciles, pieces, etc. AND I keep coming back here. I would say though that we all came here because our marriages were broken and some aren't healed.

I don't want this to come across as some guy who doesn't want to listen. I just want to say that belittling doesn't serve anyone. This is all in brotherly love.