To be clear, I think H WANTS to exit, he has fantasies about it, but he is not mentally or emotionally ready to exit. He hasn't made any plans, has no where to go other than a friend's couch, etc. I just don't want to push him to the point that he IS making plans...
I should make a note that I spoke to my lawyer and he says I can drag a D out for about 2 years in our state. I was worried about that b/c it's a no fault state, so I thought if he filed, I'd be done with... not true.
