For the moment I would be nice to him, whilst still be clear about expecting NO contact with OW and see what happens until you can find out more OR decide what you want and what is best for you.
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This is where Passenger was when she came to us. It hasn't worked.
It never works.
Puppy
I disagree - she came to us wondering whether to expose or not. She did that and THAT hasn't worked. Her H is about to exit the door. IMO a change in strategy is required as I think he wants out.
I also think passenger is all over the place and needs to take a mental break, regroup, and look after herself.
Passenger - re read your post before Puppy posted.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength