W still wants separation, need to DB more

[TrentC]

I am trying to acknowledge positives as baby steps so I can stay motivated. I think "If she is trying to co-exist with me and counting down the days why would she be generous, considerate or even care what I think about things? why would I even matter to her anymore?" or am I just reaching for positives?

What it means is, despite what she says to you about the R, she still has feelings for you.

Your job is to continue to project confidence, honesty, and caring; those are attractive qualities.

The best way to track baby steps is the list of goals that you put together; this is why I suggested that you focus on the easiest to achieve goals first.