Puppy, the inlaws think I should leave H alone to raise the kids and deal with the day to day on his own. To see what he would be missing without me around. What do you think of this? If I GAL and tell him I'll be going out on weekends and I'll be spending evenings doing things for myself, he'd be stuck with the kids, grocery shopping, making dinners, paying bills, taking care of the animals, dealing with the fights, homework, drama of teenagers, etc. Is there any merit in this approach (in addition to the rest?)
