Mariage Row or Marriage Bliss?

[june72]

OMG, OTMT, are you putting this on her? Are you stating that the failure of hte marriage would be her fault and not own up to your end?
Are you going to leave out that you chose to do porn rather than have sex with her for 12 years! B/c porn was better. That you found her wxtremely unattractive for years? That is was a very rare event-sex with you wife.

Are you really really going to play the martyr role here?
If only people read your earlier thread about how she is of lesser intelligence and how you invalidate what she states.


I didn't want to say this b4, b/c I have concern for you and didn't want to upset you but I think this very much was a mentally and vebally abusive maarriage! Yes, I said it!
Perhaps on both ends there was negative stuff going on but the stuff you stated to CG and I on earlier threads- very insightful as to how you think.


First time you EVER take you wife out ona date in 12 years and your eyeballing the watress and then you wife has to excuse herself to the bathroom to compose herself. Your defense the waitress was pretty.


You are twisting this!!! You do not want to look at the hard facts of what oyu ahve done and ever since you got to this message board you have continually focused on what she needs to improve on and gloss over your faults.

You are perfectly content to start a new thread and leave out very relevant facts.

OTMT- your wife is not crazy, maybe she is not on her best behavior but there sure as h@ll is a reason as to why she wants to leave you. And post after post you seem to focus more on her then your own real legitimate problems.


And if I am reading correctly you are stating that is only somewhat addictive? Then why are you signed up for treatment forporn addiction..


Folks, I have no issue with porn- I enjoy it on rare occasion myself but it hurts his wife and he ENJOYS porn more then sex with his wife as stated on previous threads adn THAT is a serious issue!