The whole thing passenger is to do what works. You are there and seeing the consequences.
It seems that when you withdraw emotionally he pulls towards you but when he knows he can get a reaction, (like with the FB thing), he still knows he's got you hooked. I would play nice but distant and look after yourself. Give yourself some emotional downtime and stop worrying about intel and every breath he takes for a while. IMO he is enjoying the intensity of it all and keeping you hopping.
I wouldn't get cross or snarky, just pleasant and distant.....and make sure you look good too!!!!!
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Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength