Originally Posted By: Babydoll
so i replied back that i am strong enough to do this on my own. i get the stregnth everyday to forget about you, am too excited about baby to worry about you and dont need you in my life. I will have someone contact you when the baby is born, as for us, we have nothing further to discuss.


Ok this is good I think if you can keep your word. Can you follow this, cross your heart, for at least, I'd say the next 3-4 weeks?
Originally Posted By: Babydoll

I am making myself Anti-H goals:

1. do not contact H for any reason what so ever
2. If H contacts me I am ignoring him, his calls, his texts, etc
3. Do not include H in any baby plans, names, birthing classes, etc.

My personal goals

1. find a name for this precious baby!
2. Take care of myself, go to the spa, and get pampered!
3. Do things I enjoy like taking long walks, and spending tme with family and friends
4. FORGET whats-his-name and turn all my energy into ME!


Sounds good. And we'll be here for you to support you.... If you need to contact him at all about something very important during this time you could ask someone else to pass on a message for you.

(hugs)