Just found out she already filed

[ImprovedRomeo]

STBXW responded to my last email about watching DD on Sun with "that's ok, have fun at the grand prix". I just saw her email since I was watching Bridget Fonda's 'Point of no return' tonight. I almost replied to her saying 'thanks' but I don't want her to think I'm out partying that's why I'm up so late and for her to think 'oh if he's out partying I should do the same' - though I bet she probably does when she wants to anyway...who knows. I hate the analysis paralysis over little stuff like this.

Also talked to DD earlier tonight and she said "Daddy, mommy said that I could see you tomorrow (Sat)" I said "oh ok sweetie". So does that mean I should text/email STBXW and see what/if she has in mind...my guess is she'd probably suggest meeting at a park or for lunch. I'm a bit torn about it, obviously I want to see DD and spend time with her but I don't want to give her false hope that we'll be able to do this much. Two, I can't really stay dark this way, though I'm not sure that's really having much of an impact one way or another - I really have no way of knowing.