Thanks guys. I'm home now. Nothing I said to her was in any way under a drunken haze so I really do t think I'm going to break here. I think that the combination of just getting out with friends and away from everything and have a few beers to just loosen up my nerves really did the trick. I feel really good about what I said to her. I think it made a clear statement that I'm not going to be pushed around anymore, but that if she's willing to work on herself, I'm not going to just dismiss our marriage. I don't know. I guess all I can do is stick by what I believe and said. The rest is up to her to figure out. I'm not waiting around very long for that, but I'm going to stay clear from her and let he make the next move. I know I'll react and deal with it in the right way, one way or another. Again, thanks for eveyones support. God, what a great night!!!