One more thing... if you go back on your word tomorrow or the next day and allow her back into the home without a word... you're screwed.
+1000 on this. I warned you about the beers but you actually did good BUT now the line in the sand is drawn. This is a crucial juncture. If you cave, she will own you and your marriage will be all but done (my opinion).
I can't remember the sitch but I do recall one other guy in a similar sitch where he put all his chips in. He didn't blink and his wife came back in tears and apologies, the whole nine yards. He is long gone now. Maybe someone else will remember. That is the one bummer with this place. The success stories move on quickly. It gives the impression of less success than there actually is.
Stay strong. We are with you.
Me 44 She 46 S13 D9 M18 T23 3 years DB'ing Successfully busted
