Gatsby, I am worried that my response to your post in my thread sounds hippocritical bc I am telling you to stay the course you have started and applauding you for not being afraid to divorce because you believe wholeheartedly you and your H will be together. (whew- long sentence)
You had stated that you believe your child will be okay if you show her it is okay and then I went on to say (pretty much) that children from broken homes end up broken. HOWEVER what you are doing now is the right thing. I was operating on the beliefs I stated because I was afraid for my son. And that is why I ended my response to your post the way I did- I get it that IF it comes to divorce then absolutely we need to be strong and positive for our kids and they will still be negatively affected by the divorce but to a lesser degree.
Sorry for going off on my thread. And I totally want to see Date Night!! Tina Fey is so clever!!!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
