New and Needing Advice (Long)

[Gnosis]

She was just trying to f*ck with me and I guess a few beers is what I needed to finally speak up. This is what I said to her after she did in fact prove to me that she's staying at her moms house: "Ok, I don't know why you had to lie to me, other than to f*ck with me. I'm not playing games anymore. This is retarded. Were f*cking adults and yeah, I was a spineless bitch for far too long and I let you and everyone else walk over me, but not anymore. I'm done with being a passive little bitch. I know what I want and how I deserve to be treated and this isn't it, so You can either accept that I've grown the f*ck up and never getting pushed around again or you can keep acting like this until the divorce is final. I'll see you on Sunday. "

Well... it goes against the cool, calm and collected part... but that's good because you've been TOO much of that in the past. It was a good reply... but said in anger. You're going to have to get a grip on that. This is why I usually advise people on the board to stay away from the "dutch courage."

I hope you really meant what you said. The part in bold above should not have been said... next time around you will correct that by throwing in, "You know what? I'm not sure about how I feel about you at this point in time... I need some space. I want you to stay at your mother's until I decide what I want to do."

You can expect another barrage of texts and phone call attempt tomorrow... maybe even through the night tonight. Switch off your phone. Have a great day tomorrow planning your party on Sunday.... which is looking even COOLER than ever now.

Don't worry, we're still working on getting you back together.

Right now you're angry and pissed, the alcohol is talking and you've just felt the first real surge of adrenaline in your system for a long time. Stick to your guns here. Don't back down now. Take the rest of the weekend to let the rush get through your system.

EDIT: And stay the hell away from her. DO NOT get pulled into any more conversations. Just shut the hell up. No more talk. A man takes ACTION and he RESPONDS.... with class and style. He does not lose his temper. He is in CONTROL of his emotions.