wow! H sent you gifts for the baby!!! did you reply or contact him bc of the gift?
i truly wonder how their minds work... dont you? maybe his fears really have set him back... i wish there were a book for Preggers like us and WAH's. so many questions... completely different circumstances than other stories posted on here, yet somewhat similar. Dont want to give you false hope... just dont give up. Is that fair to say? Michelle has an article listed on this site about not divorce not being a solution when kids are involved... so isnt it fair to say that also we should continue to do 180s and GAL and go dark etc, we shoulnt give up or detach completely?
You sound like you are doing well. I am going to reread the previous pages as i find your strength motivating. i like the 7 point email you sent to his mom. Great boundaries!
As for my birthing plan... i dont really have one. called today to find out about birthing classes to find out they are 6 weeks long!!! i know my mom would come with me, H has asked me a dozen times to go... dont want either of them to come with... thinking about skipping them altogther. I am going in and asking for drugs... my sis went natural last year... so its possible! but i dont think its for me.
Newmama... are you still DBing? I have to re read your threads...
