"All rise"

[ClingingToHope]

D11 said something tonight that I wasn't happy about. She said STBXW said when they are old enough to get married they have to be really careful or else it could turn out to be a disaster.

I'm not sure if that was a swipe at me or not. It may not have been. She may have been talking about her parents, who had an awful M.

I am sure that I should just let it go. The only disaster is the financial state she put us in before the D and the mess she's going to make of her and our daughters' lives after.

It's up to me to rebuild my life so the girls have some stability.

And I'll never, ever, ever hint that our M was a disaster.