Moving on with my life #2

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Exh came by today...twice. He came by earlier this morning with some medication for baby that I asked him to pick up and then this afternoon he just showed up. No call. No text.

Tonight I sent him a nice text that said 'hey...i think its best that you call or text before coming by. I am sure you understand. Thanks'.

He flipped! Called me and asked what he did wrong now. I said nothing I just think its best we have some boundaries. He got angry and said this was about me being controlling and still wanting to control everything. I said no, it was about me having some privacy. I said nothing has to change other than you giving a simple call or text to see if we are home or busy. He didn't like that at all, proceeded to call me more names and tell me how unhappy he is etc. I said I am not being difficult, just want to be able to relax in my own home.