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...the great ambiguities, uncertainties, and difficulties...


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...suffer pain... all the time knowing that you really cannot intervene or stop it.


Unbelievable. He is glossing over the fact he enabled the very behavior that caused someone else pain.

Wow. So, he is admitting that he was consciously aware of the great pain he caused you in his great disservice to you and your D14, but he refrained from doing his duty to confront the offender. It's not just that he was too blind to see it, but he was consciously aware of the injury being done to you -- and he not only turned a blind eye to it he also thereby condoned it.

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Therefore while I can't and won't offer advice, fixes, or even (except in very rare situations) interventions to you or any others, please know that I do genuinely and sincerely hold you in my daily prayers, thoughts, and blessings...


I seriously doubt he ever remembered you in his prayers. Not when he also embraced the sinner and rejected the victim. And even so, as a man of the cloth he was under greater obligation to take more action than prayer. Sitting on one's hands in the face of sin is certainly not biblical.

Such a coward and a weasel! I am deeply offended and ashamed that he calls himself a Christian leader -- he contributes to the poor image so many have of Christians today.


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.