Well, I'd love to have a heads up as to what to expect next.
you will wake up in the morning by yourself.
and do yourself a favor, yell, "IT'S F*CKING GREAT TO BE ALIVE" or whatever mantra suits your direction for the day/rest of your life.
and go to lowes or home cheapos and buy a bunch of packaging boxes and box up her stuff and leave it waiting for her.
Your wifed effed up man. She's is sending pictures to some other guy. That is really really bad. THAT IS EFFED UP. What is she thinking?
not about your best interest!
If you love her you need to let her go, let her do what she wants, where she wants, whatever she wants just not around you and the kids. and disrespect you like that. she needs to go.