Oh no! Thank you CW! AND THANK YOU Aver! I am sorry that I didn't realize that I read the same thing twice! Avermont, I totally think of you as someone who knows how to take care of house problems so please tell me more if you ever want to.
Another thing I was thinking about- FEAR. Ok I am annoyed that the latest buzz thing is to "overcome your fear." YOu know why? I bet you my WH was AFRAID to sleep with OW and be with her. But he overcame his fear! yippee! It's all about what makes YOU happy right??? That's what life is about- being selfish!
ok that was sarcastic. But some fears are worth heeding! Why I am not filing for D: I am afraid of my son growing up in a split custody sitch. I am afraid that if I D, I will find another man. And then when WH ends his A (their f'd up relationship WILL end- mark my words) he will want to come back and I will be torn.
I am afraid that I will never stop loving WH.
OK if he files for D then all of the fears remain the same. But I will be forced to deal with them. arrghhh!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
