This has been my internal rule. If STBXW asks me to take the girls because of her job I tend to say yes.

If STBXW asks me to take the girls so she can go partying with her townie bar friends then I say no.

Sometimes I feel guilty, but I'm not ready to enable her to find someone else.

Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11
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