Originally Posted By: idontunderstand
See if any of this sounds familiar:

Go dark.

No contact. Period.

Take care of yourself.

Don't give her the satisfaction of knowing how much you miss her.
It only empowers her more.

You have to fix you, your body and, most importantly, your soul before you can begin to fix "us".

One more thing: GO DARK. NO CONTACT.

God bless you, James.


thanks man. I appreciate it.

waw just asked to go to surgery. I haven't responded. She said I hurt her feelings about our disagreement about SD8 at lunch so she's been distant (looks@ phone records and sees calls to OMs)

She asked my opinion I gave it. I think she's trying to make me feel guilty again so that she can justify her actions. Nope not this time.

Darkness falls.


waw 36 (spiritual covenant and common law marriage)me 32
together 13 mos. Bomb dropped march 2nd 2010

children SD (8) S (10) S (3)
need help from anyone with my sitch