W still wants separation, need to DB more

[OfficerInNeed]

Quick update:

I had planned on going to church this evening for a conference for both singles and couples about relationships. Earlier in the day I mentioned this to my W that there was a conference but did not mention it was about R. She had no interest in going either way.

Later on I decided I would go myself. I went upstairs to get ready, after being up there for a few minutes my W called up to me and said "What are you doing?" I responded "Just shaving, do you need something?" she said "I thought maybe you wanted to watch a movie or something." I was torn between the two but I jumped on the opportunity to watch a movie with my W.

SO we watched the movie had some laughs. We sat on the same couch. A few times she accidentally bumped me and acted as if she just burnt herself by touching a fire and immediately moved.

When the film ended I went upstairs to finish shaving, she came up shortly after and asked what I was doing and I told her. She walked into the bathroom and got ready for bed. I laid on the bed in the spare room waiting for her to finish up. She walked in the room and asked once again what I was doing then asked "Are you going to stay in here or what?" I said I'll just lay here, she left the room exhaling as if she was upset.

She went and laid in the other bed. I walked in to grab a change of cloths, she still had the light on and I asked "You sleeping with the light on tonight?" and she replied "Not sure yet. What are you shaving for anyway, you going somewhere?" I told her "No, I have a few things to do in the morning that is all" so she said after giving me a 'yeah OK' look..."You don't need to shave for that but OK" I simply told her that I felt comfortbale doing now rather than in the morning...told her "goodnight" and left the room, she did not say it in return but she seemed bothered by something.

I am not sure what this whole exchange means of anything but that is what happened tonight. I will say what I did today was be kind, calm, and due to fatigue I was not over excited as I usually am. At one point while driving I turned up a song that I liked and listened to it again later when we got home. She asked "Do you like that song" I told her I did. The song's context dealt with moving on and "what goes around comes around" but there was no hidden message I just liked the song.