Eventually the kids figure it out. One parent demeaning the other always comes back to bite 'em in the ass.... Talk to your lawyer about her harassment, see if there's anything that can be done.
From where I sit, your children have one true parent: you. If they hate you for setting boundaries and consequences, you are doing it right. Be the one true parent you are. And remember, spew coats are useful with kids, too
You are doing fine. Don't second guess yourself. Your instincts and actions are right on the money.
Oh, and...Delete All Texts from her. Before reading them!
Hey G. Thanks for responding. They do seem to hate me for setting boundaries and consequesces for their behavior. Thanks for the reminder about the spew coat!
"You are doing fine. Don't second guess yourself. Your instincts and actions are right on the money." - And thanks for that too!
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
