Also, WAH is no macho brute. He will not come storming into the maternity wards, guns a blazin.
lol!
Piano, I actually see you as being very strong and consistent as of late-I think I read somewhere that 1) our brains shrink 2% when we are pregnant and 2)it is very common for us to have fears of the father abandoning us and the baby-- this was in a pregnancy book and it was for all pregnant women, including those who were still happily married lol!
and I firmly believe that unless you wanted to be divorced, you won't be able to detach 100% from your H. I stand by this! WHat's wrong with being 80% detached? Some things sound good in principle but are unrealistic you know? and I loved the list of things your BIL would pass on to WH if he wanted- I really really really want things to work out for you Piano and you are doing GREAT!!!!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
