Heh heh, he could have an OW. I really don't know. I don't go snooping around looking for one, but I have to assume it. It does make a difference to me, though. If he does have one, I'm like "F you." If he doesn't, that's all right. So. . . yeah.
(He did make out with a girl a few weeks after we separated, but I don't think that went anywhere. But she could be the OW. She's stupid, though, really stupid. If he does have one, I hope it IS her because she's so lame.)
So it's a little sad to hear that your WH hasn't returned since S was born. I need to go over to your thread to catch up!
I am soooo setting boundaries about him seeing me. I really don't want to see him unless he wants to see me, period. I'm going to have other people help me during the first part of baby caretaking! I even put in my contract that he'll pay for hired help, if that's what I want. He hasn't signed that contract yet, though...
I can't help but think that if he wants to be with her, he'd want to be with me. But it might not happen.
So I got the gifts he sent today. Here's his message:
Dear Gatsby,
The support, wisdom, and above all, happiness that you are going to give our daughter will ensure a life full of laughter and love.
WH
I rolled my eyes at first, then got irritated, then got a little teary, and am now back to irritated. I am really getting sick of all these WAS. Every time I see a new post from a newcomer I'm like, "Really? OMG!"
Ok, enough for now. I'm supposed to go see Date Night. Come on, Tina Fey, bring the funny!
me, 30 WH, 29 D born June 2010 M: July 2001 Bomb/S: 1/14/10 Done with it all.
