Allen A - thanks for the 2x4, I agree with you 100%. And I know not everything I've said to him is the right thing. However, I have gotten the point across that these are all his decision not mine. And with the last 3 convo, he seems to be slowly & I'm mean very slowly reconsidering his decisions. I'm not saying he has changed his mind or anything. But him suggesting that he wait 3 months to file I'm taking as a positive.
After next weekend I will only see him every other week for a drop off of the kids. I'm thinking this will be a good thing. And I'm staying out of his affair drama. It's been exposed to everyone and he still denies. But none of that matters anymore. I'm giving it over to faith that his affair will die out on his own. I'm hoping that the OW starts pushing and nagging him, and I want to be the one not doing that.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10
