Pass, I would add to Mr Bond's that you expose this affair to both his kids and meet him at the door as a FAMILY and hand him his suitcase... don't do this solo... you need to expose to his kids to get his attention... in my opinion the exposure on that deeper level IS a consequence for him.. and he will be PISSED
But.. it shows HIM you won't sit there and have him push you around... and he IS pushing you around... its passive aggressive, but he IS pushing you around.
He KNOWS you watch the facebook postings, and he did it anyways. He's making this into a passive aggressive shoving match...
You meet him at the door with his suitcase in hand for him, with his kids there ready to hit him for cheating on you... that is a push back so he knows you won't sit and take it.
