My first instinct is to say I would ask him if he would like to go and move in with OW and her H whilst he gets his head together - but I would just be being snarky. He probably expects that sort of a reaction anyways.
My other instinct though is to say stop looking at FB - it's baiting you and is stupid. Maybe what they are doing is just stupid idiocy but not an A. What they are discussing isn't exactly high cuisine is it for goodness sakes - take it at face value - childish rubbish. I am sure they know you are watching and get a rise out of thinking this is killing you.
As you seem to have no 'consequences' you feel ready/ able to implement, you need to ignore it and get on with your own life. To do that you need to stop spying. I am with 25yrs on this one - what's the point if you can't act on the information? it just hurts you.
As for the weekend business - you didn't discuss it - once more you took control and decided to go away by yourself. He was pleasant when you told him. There was no right or wrong but there are two sides to looking at these things. For the moment I would just act well and look after yourself.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
