I moved over early because I felt like I was trying to survive the divorce process first. I'll probably start a new thread when I'm single -- I've been told that's better than saying divorced.

I'm not really sure who is calling the shots on my STBXW's side. We had something worked out in February then she went for the home run in March and everything she was saying sounded like it had been put in her mouth.

Then at mediation she backed off most of it so we'll see at the settlement conference.

In my case, I still don't see evidence of an OM and she's told the girls she'll never remarry. She seems to be spending more and more time with her mom. They have a very weird relationship. I couldn't quite figure them out.

Have a good weekend.


Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11
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