Wow... a WAS that cheats and lies about it. I think you are the only person that has ever experienced that!
Again, no gratitude. Not one word. Sad.
You have set NO boundaries with your W and you will not even go dark for two days. Maybe you are right, a divorce is best.
The only 'work' you want to do is the 'fun stuff' like dating and spending the day in a hotel room. You either get your hands dirty, dive in and do the REAL work or you divorce. Make a choice or you will continue to self destruct.
Either way, you need to work on you. And I don't mean clothes, job, walking, sleeping and so on. It has to be much deeper or you life will never change.
lol I could have sworn I typed thank you CITY GIRL.
lol smarty pants.
I did go dark for two days.
No trust me alot of my M has NOT been fun.
What boundaries can I set? for the boundaries to matter and have an impact someone has to care about those boundaries. Obviously she doesn't.
It's worse than it was before. At least when I had doctor's appointments or things like that she cared enough to call and see how I was doing. Or to text.
Now it's just treat him like total trash?
It's like she enjoys hurting me. Heck I helped her before and she did not have to take it to this extreme.
I really really dont think she cares anymore if she'll go right back to doing this like what we shared was nothing.
so what do I do? how do I gain respect from someone who doesn't care or acts or pretends?
waw 36 (spiritual covenant and common law marriage)me 32 together 13 mos. Bomb dropped march 2nd 2010
children SD (8) S (10) S (3) need help from anyone with my sitch
