I felt the same way toward my H. It seemed that when I finally got my act together a little, H saw and wanted to reconcile immediately. While I was thrilled, I couldn`t go through with it because he hurt me terribly and I was just coming out of it, feeling better. He was still in MLC and I felt he wasn`t ready. I asked him to give me some time and he said no. This was 6 mos. into his crisis.
