I knew I should have sent her the toilet plunger with balloons and the cute little bear attached. I am such a loooooser!
hahaha!!
I wish I had a story to share but my STBXW just kept it all inside and simmered instead of giving communicatiion a chance.
Maybe one...while unemployed last year she said she felt useless and yet she didn't have time to do anything...huh? Anyway, I suggested volunteering or getting involved in her hobbies like gardening, baking, bicycling. I even put DD back in daycare school full time so she could have time to herself. Later she said "you 'pressured' me to do things that you wanted me to do". Sorry for trying to help!
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again