Thanks. I'm not sure what to do, other than see if separation will make her realize that things aren't so rosy without me around, but that way seems so manipulative.
I could agree to it all of her demands, but the resentment I feel toward being policed is definately showing and causing arguments that are way beyond where they could've been. On top of that, I don't think I could keep it up. She wants 100% abstinance (even though my 1st doc appt isn't for 6 more weeks), no locked doors ever, no thoughts in my head, and more. I know it is her fear and insecurity, but I can't solve that.
And the icing to this cake? She is going to a group counseling session on abusive spouses instead of dealing with why she stands at a door banging on it so I'll open it when I exercise.
