TF & SW - Thanks for the thumbs up. I even got a "thank you for the soup" call.
I'm a little frustrated. Since the day he announced that the affair is over and he wants to try to R, we didn't really talk about our relationship or any concrete plans as to what the next step is. I'm not initiating any R discussions and either is he. The day when he told me he wants to R we did talk and I told him that I want to take it slow, but I was expecting him to peruse me more...wanting to spend more time together.
He was doing acts of service for me especially when I was sick. Now he calls several times a day mainly about business or when he needs something. Not just to chat. So far he didn't go out of his way to ask me to spend any fun time with him.
I know that last week I was sick and this week he is sick...maybe that plays a role.
Also he is still very much depressed (end of affair/MLC???). I hear it in his voice on the phone, there is no enthusiasm or happiness showing. He is even short on the phone sometimes. What I say and do seems to be occasionally irritating to him. I feel that I still need to validate a lot and tip toe around him...not always, but sometimes (and I'm sick and tired of that)
But overall there are positives, I have to remind myself that it's only been 10 days. I should just relax and let it develop.
I'm not waiting for him to plan my weekend. Tomorrow I'm going out with a bunch of my friends...dinner & maybe dancing. Should be fun
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
