i see what you're saying...but i guess what i'm trying to say is i'm starting to doubt that i want to work things out. after the first time we separated, my H promised it would never happen again. a year went by and here i am again, same place, same situation. i don't want to spend the rest of my life with someone, constantly thinking, ok, when is he going to leave again? no matter how much i love him. i want more for myself than that. and i don't know if my H is capable of giving me that kind of security because he never has before.


Me30 H29
M2.5 T5
H moved out 1/23/2010
H wants signed agreement 3/30/2010
...feeling hopeless