H4L- warning, this is about the cat, and it isn't very nice but I have got to be honest I feel! does the cat need to be fixed? why is he spraying or peeing? how can you handle that smell? sorry I am just honestly curious about this because now that your carpet is ruined it will always smell like cat urine which is so depressing. It always makes me think of unfortunate poor people or old people who aren't able to take care of their pets.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
