You're right. The space/time to reflect w/ him not around will probably be a good thing.

While he is gone, get out there & GAL a bit, whether it's going to lunch w/ a friend or a girl's night for dinner or something. Keep up the good work w/ the gym too! I'm not having such luck w/ my will power as you seem to be having w/ regard to the gym smile

Between now & then start up your DB'ing again so that when he leaves & is gone, he is wondering what is up w/ you & what you're thinking & doing. This would be an awesome time for him to start worrying!! While he's gone just let him contact you & be really busy smile

Last edited by RedHeadWife; 04/16/10 08:42 PM.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10