You're right. The space/time to reflect w/ him not around will probably be a good thing.
While he is gone, get out there & GAL a bit, whether it's going to lunch w/ a friend or a girl's night for dinner or something. Keep up the good work w/ the gym too! I'm not having such luck w/ my will power as you seem to be having w/ regard to the gym
Between now & then start up your DB'ing again so that when he leaves & is gone, he is wondering what is up w/ you & what you're thinking & doing. This would be an awesome time for him to start worrying!! While he's gone just let him contact you & be really busy
Last edited by RedHeadWife; 04/16/1008:42 PM.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10