If what you wrote is true, then I am impressed with you. An abussive realtionship takes two to work, and it is dysfunctioanl to an extreme...for you to realize these things as quikly as you did...
I think you are going to have a wonderful life...don't get me wrong you have some hard work ahead of you, but the first steps you have taken are impressive.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK