Divorcebusting.com | Contact

Register Log In

Divorcebusting.com Forums Divorcebusting.com Archives Surviving the Big D Archives Need to regroup...

Print Thread

Page 35 of 36

1

2

…

33

34

35

36

Re: It's raining, it's pouring.... :) BobbiJo #1983948 04/16/10 08:28 PM
Joined: Oct 2007 Posts: 5,992 S smith18 Member
smith18 Member S Joined: Oct 2007 Posts: 5,992	Originally Posted By: BobbiJo *Kissing, touching, playing, pretty much anything will be considered except for sex---that would come down the line if I decided I wanted to) From my experience as a guy with 2 brains, once the kissing and playing starts, sex either happened that night or within a day or two. In a friends with benefits relationship, one person will always want more.

Re: It's raining, it's pouring.... :) Babygirl #1983952 04/16/10 08:30 PM
Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 9,035 Canada W whatisis Member
whatisis Member W Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 9,035 Canada	It's really just best to go out with guys you aren't attracted to, that's what I'd do but I'm a guy so I probably shouldn't go out with other guys and flirt etc unless I'm leaning that way and I'm not so I guess I won't....but you go ahead and have fun! Divorced February 27, 2012. "Only by love is love awakened".~ Ellen G White

Re: It's raining, it's pouring.... :) smith18 #1983957 04/16/10 08:32 PM
Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 6,948 Iowa B BobbiJo OP Member
OP BobbiJo Member B Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 6,948 Iowa	Originally Posted By: KerryK Originally Posted By: BobbiJo *Kissing, touching, playing, pretty much anything will be considered except for sex---that would come down the line if I decided I wanted to) From my experience as a guy with 2 brains, once the kissing and playing starts, sex either happened that night or within a day or two. In a friends with benefits relationship, one person will always want more. From my experience, I didn't have sex just played but then I was 19-20 years old the last time I had these opportunities! As a lady w/a dozen years of sex under my belt, those rules have been revised.... Heaven help me if I find a good kisser. Good kissing will pretty much do the job of a half dozen beverages in terms of lowering my inhibitions.......just sayin... Me-35 Together: 18 yrs M-12.5 yrs S-8 D-4 D'd: Feb. 2010 The LORD your God is with you, he is mighty to save. --Zeph. 3:17

Re: It's raining, it's pouring.... :) BobbiJo #1983961 04/16/10 08:33 PM
Joined: Aug 2008 Posts: 2,991 out in the boonies of kansas B Babygirl Member
Babygirl Member B Joined: Aug 2008 Posts: 2,991 out in the boonies of kansas	uh oh......BBJ dont combine the alcohol and really good kissing then....or....... M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010

Re: It's raining, it's pouring.... :) Babygirl #1983979 04/16/10 08:50 PM
Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 6,948 Iowa B BobbiJo OP Member
OP BobbiJo Member B Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 6,948 Iowa	Originally Posted By: Babygirl uh oh......BBJ dont combine the alcohol and really good kissing then....or....... I rarely have more than two drinks in an evening, unless I am at a really great party with no need to drive...(i.e. my cousin's 30th bday at the casino last year)... If I have to get liquored up to want to kiss you, then you are not worth my time...maybe in college when I needed the ol' liquid courage, but now? Not so much.... Me-35 Together: 18 yrs M-12.5 yrs S-8 D-4 D'd: Feb. 2010 The LORD your God is with you, he is mighty to save. --Zeph. 3:17

Re: It's raining, it's pouring.... :) SmileysPerson #1983980 04/16/10 08:52 PM
Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 6,948 Iowa B BobbiJo OP Member
OP BobbiJo Member B Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 6,948 Iowa	Originally Posted By: SmileysPerson Welllllll, speaking only for me BobbiJo..... Your list is.... ummmmm.... ah..... hmmmmmm... Hey! Ever notice you can type the word, "erect," with one hand? I think that about covers my answer Smiley, that is spectacular feedback....love it! Me-35 Together: 18 yrs M-12.5 yrs S-8 D-4 D'd: Feb. 2010 The LORD your God is with you, he is mighty to save. --Zeph. 3:17

Re: It's raining, it's pouring.... :) BobbiJo #1984003 04/16/10 09:11 PM
Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 3,975 M mindfull Member
mindfull Member M Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 3,975	Glad I had to be out and about today, and didn't contribute to THIS conversation! Hey, BBJ! Hugs, friend. Me-46, D-21, S15, S13 After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011 The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.

Re: It's raining, it's pouring.... :) mindfull #1984005 04/16/10 09:11 PM
Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 6,948 Iowa B BobbiJo OP Member
OP BobbiJo Member B Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 6,948 Iowa	Oh mind, you were here in spirit though! Me-35 Together: 18 yrs M-12.5 yrs S-8 D-4 D'd: Feb. 2010 The LORD your God is with you, he is mighty to save. --Zeph. 3:17

Re: It's raining, it's pouring.... :) BobbiJo #1984010 04/16/10 09:15 PM
Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 3,975 M mindfull Member
mindfull Member M Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 3,975	Glad I had to be out and about today, and didn't contribute to THIS conversation! Hey, BBJ! Hugs, friend. Me-46, D-21, S15, S13 After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011 The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.

Re: It's raining, it's pouring.... :) mindfull #1984052 04/16/10 10:25 PM
Joined: Sep 2009 Posts: 3,096 Illinois, United States C ClingingToHope Member
ClingingToHope Member C Joined: Sep 2009 Posts: 3,096 Illinois, United States	Liquid Courage ... love that. Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6

Page 35 of 36

1

2

…

33

34

35

36

Moderated by Cadet, DnJ, job, Michele Weiner-Davis

Link Copied to Clipboard

Michele Weiner-Davis Training Corp. 1996-2025. All rights reserved.

Powered by UBB.threads™ PHP Forum Software 7.7.5