Hey CG, I think everyone is telling you pretty much the same thing just different levels of heat.

Everyone agrees you need to stand up for yourself and set some real boundaries with consequences. Some would have you ease into it and learn as you go. Others might have you come out barrels blazing. Just a matter of which you think will work for you. Either way, you have to do it if you want to change the path you are on. Either way, it is gonna kick a lot of dust.

What are the mixed opinions that are confusing you?


Me 44 She 46
S13 D9
M18 T23
3 years DB'ing
Successfully busted