Yeah, I am more than willing to listen to everyone's opinion and advice to consider, but I'm getting such mixed opinions and I know that it's my responsibility to sort through them. So much of this has gone against everything that I've let myself become over the years and hasn't been easy. But, I know that my passive nature and desire to please people is what got me here and it sure as hell isn't going to get me out of this. All I can do is keep absorbing everyone's advice, keep myself upright and working on the things in my life that I know need to change so that I'm a better person and stick up for myself, and get out and enjoy myself.
Now I have an email from her saying "you're in for a treat when you go home :)" god, I don't really care what it is, but I swear to god if she's broken anything. . . I'm assuming 1 of 3 things. . . 1. a copy of the petition for divorce (fine with me) 2. she's moved stuff out (really ok with me) 3. she's broken things (not sure how to respond to that)
