Sadly, apart from what he told me, (I am not a family man, our marriage was a mistake, you are the meanest person I've met, I would never marry you again, you have ruined my life, you'll cause me cancer and kill me etc etc etc), I read what he had told her as well :if it wasnt for the kids, he would be long gone, our sex life sucked, etc etc
And yes, this is not an XH!!! I busted my @ss for this man... Oh dear! K
