Yeah I am not too upset about it, just bummed cause I was having fun flirting again!!!
And I guess the future recipients of the BBJ flirtfest better be able to handle the fact that I have my own wants/needs in the passion department and am not afraid to be vocal about it, and yes that can be taken in many ways.
No really, I know it sounds bad but I liked the fact that I knew him and we had a pre-existing knowledge of each other (not exactly close friendship but common school/community background)....that made it a lot easier to feel comfortable hanging out and flirting than any of the times I have tried to do the same with guys from Match.com.....
Why should he pursue you when you have been sounding like he isn't the one then? Wouldn't that be stupid of him to chase a woman who doesn't want a serious relationship with him and only wants to flirt?
So you should only go on a first date with someone that you already know you want a serious relationship with?
I just came out of 3 years of suck capping off 18 years together/12 years of marriage!
So while I am quite eager to get out there flirt, kiss, touch, play, date, and have fun, I am not ready to be the next Mrs. Whomever yet. So that means I can't date? Enlighten me, gucci!
It isn't that I don't like him, I just don't have such a tight connection that I would be devastated if we didn't go out again......does that make sense?
lol thanks for asking for clarification, I want to know about that too lol......seems we think alike!
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
If a woman basically wants to hang out with you, (and I will break that down):
Go to dinner Out to the movies Driving Range Comedy club Movie at home Piano Bar Baseball Game (go Cardinals!) Other random social activity.....
And she also wants to flirt with you and play around (if I must I can break that down...) *Verbal flirting *Text flirting (if he's good with that but I do NOT go in for picture messaging, gross!!!) *Kissing, touching, playing, pretty much anything will be considered except for sex---that would come down the line if I decided I wanted to) *Lots of laughing and joking bc I am a born sarcastic person
BUT she does not want an instant long term commitment....
That is a BAD thing?
Wow........I know I have been out of the dating game for a decade + but I did not know that..........
Wow BBJ great breakdown......got a diet coke, gonna sit back and anxiously await the answers, maybe we can both get this all figured out tee hee
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
Oh shoot smileys comment made me choke on that diet coke I was sippin hehehe, sorry all...... Ok really we are anxiously waiting.......
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
Enlighten me, gucci! 
